We have been dating for 6 months and i know is not too much but i am honest with her and i thought that she was honest with me.
Until i found out that she is seeing some kind of psychologist because she has been dealing with depression and other insecurities since she was very young.
Honestly i was not expecting that because she always seems so happy when she is with me and now i feel like there is nothing that i can do. Now it really bothers me and at the same time i want to help her.
Most Helpful Girl
You should feel happy that your girlfriend is helping herself by seeing a psychologist. Many people suffer from depression or mental illness refuse to receive professional helps and this could lead to a sad relationship. I understand you feel like being lied to, but it's not actually something she wants to hide from you intentionally. I spent 3 months to struggle to tell my boyfriend I see a therapist and under medication due to Bipolar and anxiety. I had that fear that he may not be capable to handle me and he may just ran away, obviously I was overeated. You should understand the reason why she didn't mention it to you. It's her business I agreed, but in a serious relationship, it's your business too. Help her by standing by her, support her and show that you care. She needs you !! Good luck :)1
Most Helpful Guy
I get that you're upset, but it's not easy to deal with depression and insecurities. She most likely fear that you will leave if she tells you, that's why she kept it a secret.
Don't be hard on her, she already has enough with what she's dealing with, just reassure her that you're there for her and that she doesn't have to keep anything hidden from you.0