Say you are dating a guy who's 2-3 inches taller than you. Would it be problematic if
1) Most men you know are very tall and your guy gets dwarfed in comparison 2) You come from a tall family and your boyfriend looks small next to your father, brothers, cousins etc 3) All your female friends have tall boyfriend and you're the only one that dont.
Clearly if he is my boyfriend, then I probably actually really like this guy, right? So, who cares what other people think of his height. It's not bothering me, and it sure as hell shouldn't bother them.