I dated her very shortly until I found out she was with this guy for 2 years when she was 14 and 15. She is now 19.
I was happy to be with her until I found out and I couldn't take it anymore.
I mean she is beautiful, and in some ways she is irresistible. Yet, it depresses me every time to think that she already had her first love. That I couldn't of been that guy.
First loves are special. And I was not there to fill that role in her life.
I am so DEVISTATED that she already had her first serious LOVE. How do I clear her from my mind indefinitely?
What Girls Said 4
Dude, you seriously have to move on in life and give up on your futile goal. Please get professional help.1
Sometimes first love works other times it doesn't. You should really only care about being able to be with her now. Sure being her first love would of been nice but it's better sooner then later right?0
Wow, you need to handle your own insecurities. It's not about the past, it's about right now. Live in the moment.0
What Guys Said 11
It's something you absolutely have no control over, just let it go. If it bothers you so much then maybe it's better for you to start over and find someone else that had never ever been in a single prior established relationship of any kind. Just focus on the present, whatever had happened in her past had already happened, you can't alter or change it in anyway, so just let it go.0
Whelp, you did what you had to. What's done is done. Best you move on and learn from this and next time you ask her before anything gets serious.0
Isn't it better to be a last love than a first love? i'll agree, first loves are special, but aren't the ones you spend the rest of your lives with better? besides, she may be a completely different person now, so in a way, you are the first love of her new person.1
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till u came into the picture u didn't even exist, so what u think doesn't MATTER
i think u r living in fantasy land.
i wish i couldve taken jennifer lopez virginity (not really) whats this bs u r thinking of?
i get it u liked her a lot i think u r letting your fantasies take control of your life and losing it...0
This is some seriously irrelevant bull$hit, you know that?0
she can't remember if she's dead0
It's in the past you have to move forward, Once you get past that and move forward you'll realize all the girls that are out there. Oh also did we really need to see what she look like lol.0