So I have liked this guy for about almost 2 years now. We have only gone out to eat with a group of friends and this whole time he always made sure to be near me and make conversation. Anyways other than that we dont really talk. Well he added me on snapchat and at first he would always message me and still does every other time. when we see each other at other places he will always talk he will touch my shoulder look me straigjt in the eyes etc. My friends say he Iikes me. But one time he confessed he wasn't ready for a relationship at the moment he told me this because a girl was supposedly interested in him. So I am afraid to make a move. And the thing is that I have recently made new friends and a guy he is nice too. He messages me and says let all hang out. We have all gone out to eat n to the movies gone to events. He is nice and always makes an effort to be nice. So what do I do should I move on? I appreciate your responses.
What to do should I move on?
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When did guy 1 tell you that he wasn't ready for a relationship? How much do you like guy 1? Is guy 1 still with the other girl/was he ever? What do you like about guy 1? Can you see yourself in a long term relationship with guy 1, if he likes you?
What is guy 2 like? He seems nice. Does guy 2 ever try to hang out with you alone? Do you like his looks/personality as much as guy 1? Would you see yourself in a relationship with guy 2?
If guy 1 wanted you, he'd have you by now. He could be shy or inexperienced/ not confident? Ask him if he'd be into dating anyone lately. Then say..."How about me?"
How long have you known guy 2? He might actually like you more. Focus on him. Say "You are a pretty cool guy." Then ask him, "Hey, so do you like me as a person/What do you think of me?"
Make pros and cons of both guys... pick your prince ;)0
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