So we met on tinder and he's about 15 years older than me. Of course I fell for him and he acted like he did but he just wanted sex. We were on and off for about a year and a half (mostly on) now I just found out he has a girlfriend and we have slept together since they have been together (I didn't know at the time) yea he was more distant but I was busy with work so I didn't think anything of it and it's not like we were dating. How do I say it? I feel like I need to say I know he has a girlfriend but in a crazy way I'm scared to. I guess it's just the lonely factor of it because I will really miss him but I know it's not right. How do I say something to him? It needs to be in person but sometimes finding a day to get together is hard since we both work crazy hours? And honestly I want it to hurt, I'm really upset that I was lied to for months and the fact that he was having sex with both of us at the same time I don't like either.
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"So we met on tinder and he's about 15 years older than me. Of course I fell for him and he acted like he did but he just wanted sex."
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Why does it have to be in person? I would just text him honestly and be like "You're a fucking asshole. I just found out you have a girlfriend and I cannot believe that you'd lead me on like this and cheat on her. This is ending, now. Don't ever contact me again." Make it quick, and make it clean. If you know for sure that he has a girlfriend don't give him a chance to explain because you might cave. I'm sorry to say this but if you're the side piece, you leaving won't really hurt him that much however you do it, so don't focus on that.0