I know this sounds extremely judgmental & not nice but...
My friend Who is not the most "attractive" person in the world, gets all the guys! Every time we go out guys seem to approach her & they are actually good looking. She really has nothing going for her either no car or real job.
I just don't get it, I am definitely way better looking than her and have more to offer. I don't know if I give off a "vibe" about myself or what the case is?
I guess my question is, How do I get more guys to approach me?
Most Helpful Guy
She may be more outgoing and more approachable. The other thing is, if you are good looking... that can sometimes be intimidating to guys.
The one thing you don't want to do is come across as relying totally on your looks.
A women who is friendly and approachable... or does the approaching is the type that is sought after by men.
In this day in age, guys have a lot of hurdles to jump and potholes to avoid, so getting some kind of hint that you are into them, lets them know they don't have to do all the work!4
Most Helpful Girl
Clearly your snobby - "I think I'm better than you attitude" shows even in your text...
That should tell you enough as to why guys aren't approaching you! ;-)
In addition, there is NO such thing as a 'real' job... Anything that pays you is a 'REAL job'... Get off your made belief high horse and come back to earth... Maybe then people might start approaching you. You seem to be jealous of your 'friend' - who has nothing going on for her including no car and a real job, and according to 'you' is 'less better looking than you'. To be honest, I dont even know why such a person would want to be friends with someone like you. I'm sure your friend is probably nice as hell and more approachable.
Clearly with an attitude and behavior like yours - bitchiness can be smelled a MILE away... Sorry to say this, but until you change, your friend is going to continue getting all the guys ;-)
Maybe if you'd stop focusing so much on your friend and start focusing on yourself, you could get someone nice and decent. Or like someone in the comments said, why don't you go and approach them.