I had a friend some years ago who asked me to be his girlfriend. We only went in for 3 months and I only met one of his friends. He met my mom but I never met his parents.
We never had sex so when he dumped me it I only felt upset because I wanted an explanation but if I actually had sex with him I would feel pumped and dump
He is now in a long term serious relationship
I believe I made the smart decision to not have sex with him, so what wrong with making a guy wait for sex for 6 months that you are in a relationship with to make sure he is for real?
Most Helpful Guy
Nothing wrong with that... the guy should appreciate that you are taking your time to really be sure and get to know him! Besides sex is not the number one/only part of a relationship!0
Most Helpful Girl
I think it's up to you really whatever you want to do, sure there's going to be those twats who would leave if you didn't have sex right away, and some who even if you gave it early would still be with you. it shouldn't be necessarily about the sex, it should be the person that you are and that depends on finding a good person suited for you.0