So my boyfriend and I just got into our first argument, because he has these random conversation that start off about the kids to something else. I tolerated it because that is the mother of his kids but saying I love you was the straw that broke the camels back for me. Am I over exaggerating?
Most Helpful Guy
Nope your are not over exaggerating... It's normal to feel that way0
Most Helpful Girl
I don't think that's right at all.
It's one thing to obviously be on close terms with an ex who is the parent of your child. But to say you love them? Either you do it because you love them still, or you think you're doing it for the kid, which would only make them more confused because to a kid "if mummy and daddy love each other why are they not together" etc etc (that would be my view - coming from a child of divorce).
So I don't think you overreacted at all, did he give reasoning for why he says that?0