My crush and I were chatting the other day and his comment on something I said about myself was: "Sounds like my future wife ;)". I like him a lot and I think the feeling might be mutual. We texted only a few times but he's been very sweet from the beginning, he also sends lots of wink emojis and, asks me a lot of questions, though doesn't talk much about himself unless I ask. He flirts and seems to respond very well whenever I compliment him. He called me honey a few times and a lady. On the other hand, he's always very busy and I wish he'd start a conversation for once. Last time I texted him 5 days after our first conversation and now it's been 2 days since we spoke. I'm waiting on him to text me this time. I'm a bit worried cause I know he had time these past 2 days and he could've texted me but he didn't. Maybe I'm just too impatient, but I like him so much and it happens rarely to me. Can someone clarify what all this means, how you think he feels about me and how very wellI should proceed in our communication? Thank you! <3
Most Helpful Guy
Slow your roll a bit. Nobody likes it when someone tries too hard. Let him come to you. If he likes you, he will definitely talk to you. I can't say for sure if he likes you, because I'm just getting one perspective.
What exactly is the point of not being obvious about liking him? If you like him, be an adult and let him know. You don't have to do it in a clingy way. Just that you've enjoyed talking to him and find him attractive. It's not difficult.0
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Most Helpful Girl
I think he does. Complimenting is never easy to initiate but he seems to do it exclusively for you so his admiration for you is unquestionable. The "future wife" compliment explains it all because it's a very unusual compliment and he is confident enough to tell you that he intends to marry you (I see it that way).
I think if you like him that much, you just need to tell him that you'd like it if he leaves you a message instead. It will be less worrisome (overthinking complicates things further) and you'll let him know that you'd like it if he initiates a conversation for some time. Boys just can't decipher signs that well.1