So I've noticed that no matter the couple it seems like one person is "In love" more than the other. I myself, being a hopeless romantic is always the "more in love". My questions are...
1. Which one are you most often?
2. Are you that person in the relationship 100% of the time, 50/50... if different please put in reply?
3. How do you think is getting the better? Is it the person more in love, or the other person who is less likely to get hurt in the end (less emotionally involved)?
Most Helpful Girl
Unfortunately, I'm always less emotionally involved than the person I'm in a relationship with.. Not that I do it on purpos, but it's just how things always end up being.
I'm usually 100% in the relationship at the beginning, when I'm still discovering the other and things are still fun.. but once the passion starts to fade, and the routine settles in, I start getting bored, and It becomes a lot harder for me to be fully in the relationship. (However I never cheat or anything... I jsut lode interest).. and when that happens, I usually end up by breaking up.. Obviously, I don't like being cruel, and I try not to hurt my partners, and if you thing people like don't get hurt at the end, think again.. Everytime, I hope I can jsut setlle in.. but then I get this feeling , like I wanna crawl out of my skin, and it's impossible for me to stay in the relationship, because It's just not fair for the person I'm with. So, break up, spend sometime alone to breath a bit.. then wait until the next time I feel a spark with someone.. and redo everything all over again.
It's love.. one day you're in love, the next one you're out of it... sad, but realistic. And if I EVER have children, I refuse to fill their heads with everlasting love and all that crap, because it doesn't exist (or it's very rare) and they might be too sad without it. Instead I think parents should teach their kids to feel good about themselves at all times, and to teach them how to be happy on their own.0
Most Helpful Guy
I tend to fall faster than the other person, which is a problem, cause I don't like liking her more than she likes me, cause then my trust issues start to kick in, and I start pushing away and losing interest, while she keeps on catching more and more feelings, to the point where she has lots of feelings, and I have almost none.
I obviously break up once the feelings start going away.
I've never loved, since I don't believe in love.
I'd rather she likes me more than I like her, and then I "catch up" with her.0