He's my ex... And now we are friends with benefits bc he doesn't see us in a long term relationship... But he can't tell me why, he just says he isn't in love with me anymore and doesn't see us going anywhere... I don't get it... We are very compatible and I have my life together. He swears he isn't seeing anyone else so it's not that... He is moving away and doesn't know for how long but he says it's not that either... So what is it?
Why would a guy want to be friends with benefits vs in a relationship?
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Sometimes a guy just isn't that into you... just like there are guys that YOU aren't into. You might see things that you are compatible with but that isn't enough for a relationship and love. You need that special x factor, that magic, that chemistry.. if it's not there then no amount of compatibility will make up for it.1
It is that he doesn't love you anymore and doesn't see you going anywhere. Bad idea to keep hooking up with an ex. And it is not personal that he doesn't feel that way, feelings and chemistry sometimes just go away. I am sure you have your life together but it is just not what HE is looking for or wants right now, but someone else out there is, so just move on and find him.1
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