I met this guy online a month ago. We met 3 weeks ago for the first time. He introduced me to all his friends. I had school an hour away during the week so I could only see him on weekends.
Then again a week later I spent the night for 2 nights (I went home in between those nights, during the day since he worked) but we didn't have sex then.
we didn't see each other last weekend bc we had a small falling out, but we were still talking. (Exclusivity vs not)
he messaged me he missed me yesterday. He invited me over last night. All night we made out and then slept naked together. This morning we had sex.
He told me he is a relationship guy, and he DOES really seem genuine. It's usually easy to tell when someone is bluffing. He said he was previously cheated on and it destroyed him for a bit and he slept around, but that made him realize he wasn't that kind of person. He said he wants companionship, not just sex, he wants someone to come home to, take out, do things with.
I wasn't planning on having sex with him this morning but it happened. He treated me the same so far, like walking me out and down the road to my car, telling me to message him when I get back home.
On his Instagram earlier that day that I went over there, he posted "gave my heart out so I won't be so alone" I don't know what that is referring to. He doesn't know I check his insta, I don't follow him. by the way he's 27.
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It is always hard to tell if they will disappear because even when you think they won't they do (recently happened to me). It sounds like you waited a decent amount of time to sleep with him and I think it has more to do with outside of the bedroom. As long as you two have spent some time really getting to know each other and have a strong connection otherwise, that is what will keep the guy coming back. When people sleep together too soon it is usually the fact that they really haven't gotten to know each other well beforehand and also built an intellectual and emotional connection. That is why I also don't feel there are rules for when to do it, because it is more about that this than anything. So far it sounds good other than the "falling out" if he didn't want exclusivity then, he still might not.1