We have been together for 2 years. We had a lot of fights, and it's always something every week with us.
We had a good weekend until Sunday he got mad at me for touching these pencils he had. He was really rude to me about not touching them. I didn't understand why he had to be rude about it, and took them out my hands. I walked home from his house, because I didn't appreciate his behavior towards me. I texted him how he was a really rude asshole and that he needed to stop mistreating me. He said he knows he's an asshole. He kept pushing my frustrations aside and kept sending those peace sign emotes. I told him that I'm tired of being the one to fix the relationship or being the one to voice everything, and he just act aloof about it. It has been two days now, and he still hasn't texted me. Like, I don't understand. What the hell should I do?
He also kept saying how the pencils were very special to him, but he wouldn't explain why. Plus, they were just laying out in a basket, so for something he values a lot, he sure doesn't put them in a nice place.
Most Helpful Guy
Some things are just special to some people... i can understand his POV...
he probably just got caught up in the moment, you should also realize that you should also cool down, walking off doesn't really help that. (thats like someone touching my computer the wrong way, i'd snap) doesn't mean its a constant thing, people like what they like. just apologize and say you didn't realize what was so special, i bet you he will do the same too...0
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Most Helpful Girl
Leave? Why are you fighting all the time.. And if he's an asshole why are you sticking around? It doesn't sound like a big deal to me. Not to put all the blame on him, it just sounds like you two aren't compatible and have trouble communicating. Like he doesn't want you to touch the pencils and you go and touch the pencils and he gets mad and you get mad and then neither of you really come to a conclusion or a fix to it.. And he doesn't sound like he gives you the communication you want from him soooo I don't quite get why you keep fighting for this?0
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