I have an ex boyfriend... we ended things with the knowing of getting back together eventually... I have dated someone since the breakup and just wasn't satisfied with that relationship. I feel like it's time we start talking again.. but he's pretty busy.. as am I. What can I do that will shock him and make him know I'm ready to start talking again and will make him excited to start talking again? Not that he wouldn't be.. but we've just been small talking every now and then.. and I'm ready for something else..
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I'd say flirt playfully. Sinc eyou datted him, do you know what his "love language" is... e. g. how does he feel loved? words of affirmation, touch, etc? Do that.
I was thinking.. send him plaufl and fun notes. demonstrate your high value (you aren't cheap in any department but are fun, adventerous and fun to be with). Demonstrate you RESPECT him... that is like crack cocaine to a male. For example... I so admire how hard you study, I'm very proud of you... that kind of stuff (if that is how he is fed) will stimulate him to want to be with you.