We were at a party Sunday evening, it was his friends mostly. There was this girl who was pretty attractive, I mean more attractive then me. I'm really simple and like to keep things natural and I usually just wear jeans and t-shirts, but this girl just tries way too hard like she's always wearing something sexy and wears lots of make up. We were all talking together and all of a sudden she had to go to the bathroom, then he said he was going to get a drink. After 20 to 30 minutes I started wondering where he was, then after an hour I went to look for him and I found them in the backyard sitting on a chair super close it looked like they were all over each other. We got into a fight obviously and I told him I don't ever want to see her again and he said OK we'll never have to. But what would you do? would you break up?
I wouldn't break up but I wouldn't trust him as much. The girl shouldn't be trusted either but it is mainly his fault. He knows he has a girlfriend he was that close with that girl. His first mistake was not coming back from the bathroom but instead going out to the backyard with her alone. If he even went to the bathroom. Tell him he needs to earn your trust back because you can't stop thinking about it. I don't think it's being insecure but instead putting your foot down and deciding on how you should be treated. Every woman should be treated like a queen.
wow it is clear he did something with her or was about too. how disrespectful and brave is that of him, knowing you were there? Anyways, yes break up with him. Why would you give him any more of your valuable time that you could be with a guy who doesn't disrespect you like that to your face? If you stay, you just gave him a free pass to do it again. You already know he cheated, so why stay? unless you are afraid to be alone
I would have asked for the story at first, but I understand why you would be upset. If the story is reasonable, explain how you feel. If the story makes no sense or is an obvious lie, "Oh, we just ran into each other and sat down next to each other, I don't even know her," etc, then I'd be pissed and nothing would stop my tiny little rage filled self from freaking the fuck out. If I thought he was cheating or lying, I;d break up with him
Sounds like he was about to do something with her and you caught them before something happened. Sorry but if you are at a party and ditch your SO for an hour to spend time with someone else alone then there is something up! Id dump him. I think he saw her heading to the bathroom and he thought that was his chance to make a move.
I would be VERY pissed to say the least. I would probably be mad at him until he tells me what happened and what he was thinking, otherwise I wouldn't be able to be reassured. So I would say, he should come to you and talk to you about it. just wait a few days, see what happens. And then you have to judge whether you trust his explanation or not
Oooooo id break it off quick.. no man should be that close and alone with a women at all. It might be diffrent if she was a good friend and she needed advice. I smell a cheater in the works.. sorry to say. Real men would say " we can talk right here. No need to go anywhere alone."
First I'd probably be that dumb loyal dog and stay with him. I'd like to say I'd leave his sorry ass, but more than likely I'd break her nose drag her round that yard by her face, but more than likely I'd stupidly stay with him.