This guy and I have been acquaintances for a long time. I met him while I was with my ex, about 6 years ago, or a little less. We would only run into eachother maybe once every month, almost always with my boyfriend present, so the convo never got too deep. My ex and I dated for 4 years and then once we split this acquaintance began chatting with me online. We have been talking every day since for a year and a half. He finds me attractive and knows I'm attracted to him back. However, when we talk her never gets too personal and doesn't give me a great chance to get to know him. He has told me he has anxiety and also is scarred from toxic relationships in the past but I don't know if this is why. I would think he feels something for me after maintaining contact for this long how he does... But then why won't he let me get to know him better?
He talks to me every day but doesn't open up to me?
What Guys Said 1
I think the reason he is not letting you know him better is because he still doesn't trust you fully, as you said he has been hurt in the past and scarred from relationships before, so it's natural for him to be distrustful towards people, towards women and he is taking his time to make sure he gets it right this time.0
What Girls Said 1
Just because he keeps talking to you doesn't mean he "feels something", it just means he enjoys the communication. If after a year and a half he hasn't expressed any desire for anything else, I doubt he wants anything else to happen between you, whether he finds you attractive or not.0
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