Thanks to some kick ass genes, I have guys after me left and right. However, I'm a really sensitive, introverted, shy person. I don't do hook ups and I am looking for something extremely real. I'm all or nothing. The problem with this is that when I like a guy... He becomes the "chosen one" and I pursue him like no tomorrow. Imagine a soaked rag, and I just ring that rag out til its bone dry. This is only when I am super interested in a guy, and it usually happens very fast... And they never fall for me as hard as I fall for them, or they aren't looking for something serious and just play the game.
this year so far I've been crushed twice. It really hurt, and because I have depressional tendencies, I was mentally really really off. Then I bounce back meaner and more attractive 😏
But right now I'm seeing this one guy, who I am beginning to really develop feelings for but he wants to take it slow and not be exclusive and still meet others since its only been a few times we've seen each other. And he has trust issues apparently.
I feel myself growing attached to him, so my plan to save myself is keep accepting other dates from other men, go out as often as I can and as many times I want with them as well as him.. And maybe I'll like one of them more or maybe not, but I cannot stand to be sitting at home when the guy I'm thinking about 24/7 may be spending time with another girl (s). I don't want to lose myself either. And sometimes being pursued and accepting dates makes me feel more desirable when the guy I'm into isn't giving me attention.
nothing is wrong with this right? It's smart?
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Holy crap are you my twin? Cause that's exactly how I am and what the heck is going on! Haha!.
But yeah he says he's seeing others too so you have the right to also. Maybe you'll meet even a better guy or just maybe it's not the time yet. I know going with the feelings is awesome but better to save yourself from getting hurt in the mean time since this guy is unsure.1