Some people think that chitchatting or flirting on text can build more rapport and attraction with someone. Others think that little to none texting can make the other misses or wonders more about u.
What do you think then?
- More texting increases attraction90%(19)81%(22)Vote50%(3)
- Little texting increases attraction10%(2)19%(5)Vote50%(3)
Most Helpful Girl
I like texting because it lets me get to know the guy better, to a certain degree. Obviously things come off different over text than in person, but at least you know they're interested in you and can gauge a general idea of what they like to do and what not. However, I hate to admit it because I HATE that guys do this, but little texting does increase my longing for the person. I'm constantly thinking about my crush because he texted me 2 weeks ago, I texted back, and he never responded and I don't get to see him in person until August so I'm always wondering if he's thinking of me. I do think it's good that we're not texting all summer though- building a relationship off text isn't the same as being with that person face to face. So overall, I do think little texting increases attraction but I do like that more texting makes intentions clearer.0
Most Helpful Guy
I would really like to know the answer to this. I mean I personally love it if a girl texts me. And I prefer more contact.
But I can't understand sometimes girls seem to take it for granted or treat you like a friend if you text more often?
Though I feel like initiation goes up if you text more, but then is it just friendly or flirty?
And if you text less often, but you initiate more, is that good or bad?
And in circles we go!
What do you think? Honestly I'd love to know, cos I used to text back and forth with a great girl every so often with mutual initiation. It seems to have gradually turned to more like monthly, but more me initiating. There is distance involved now, but still, I don't get it. Even if we were friends, is this good?
Interestingly she always always replied and enthusiastically? Leaving me even more confused as to whether she likes me at all and whether she likes me the same way I like her?
Girls pls advise0