I know it is completely wrong, so I want to get over him as quickly as possible.
2 weeks ago i had surgery because I was in a car accident and my nose was shattered into pieces. I could barely breathe, and needed oxygen. I thought I was going to die. My surgeon immediately operated me, and I could breathe better than ever! He was kind, attentive, intelligent and also funny (he would crack a joke or two). My feelings for him developed after my cast was removed. I know that I am mixing my feelings of gratitude for love, because not only did he save my life, but I was able to breathe better and my nose looked better than ever!
I never have a thing for men who are in their end 40s, so that is definitely not the issue here. although i do think that men around my age, even those who are approaching 30 are extremely immature and don't know what they want.
I definitely won't pursue my doctor, because obviously it is so wrong on so many levels. Not only because I'm his patient, but since he is in his 40's he probably has a life of his own, and even if he didn't have a family, it would be frowned upon on society cause of the age-difference and the doctor-patient thing. And I know that it is just my feelings of gratitude is mistaken for love..
The problem now is that I ofcourse have these feelings for him. I won't see him any longer (thank god) since I had my last check-up last week. But I need to get over these feelings and forget about him. Can anyone give me advice on how to forget my doctor? Because he is spooking in my mind quite a lot...
Most Helpful Guy
It is actually a psychological thing. He saved you and thus you developed feelings for him. That he is decent looking and the other aspects just add to this.
The key point is that it is most likely a crush just strongly enhanced by him saving you. It will vanish within time, you just need to give it time.2
Most Helpful Girl
Thank God you are Alive here, dear, And with the Doctor at hand, Who happens to be the Man... I need to get over these feelings and forget him... It's time to Move on and Begin a new Beguine.
God has given you a Second Chance and with this, A New Romance, And sadly it may Not be with the Doc who came on the Spot who was riding a white horse in your own mind, But it will Surely be Someone Special who has More in Store and be just the Right Knight for you and Now... You know what you are looking for.
This too shall Pass, Not the Gratitude, Which is what you are Feeling with "Oh, my hero," But the feelings of a Crush that will eventually go to Mush when you go out and Socialize and meet Another.
Too bad he was not Available.. Doctors Maybe Make a good Lover but not Totally a good Husband with Long hours and Not always home.
Good luck And Blessings. xx0