Alright so I've like this girl at work for too long, she definitely shows a lot of signs she likes me. Problem is i never had a chance to ask her in person without being infront of 3 other coworkers. Got to a point where i'd rather get rejected so i can move on instead of having a shot and taking another month or 2. so question is, did i pretty much secure that rejection, or if there is enough interest would she see past that?
Most Helpful Girl
If I liked a guy I would have no problem with being asked over facebook or message. The important thing is that he asks and I get to go out with him. I know lots of people tell you that you should do it in person - I would say yes that is nice but I wouldn't reject him because he did it via message.0
Most Helpful Guy
I'm not saying that you destroyed your chances but it would've been much better if you had done it in person. If only you had called her to talk privately when you had the chance... or if you had planned better how you would do it... well, what is done is done. Now just hope that she'll answer something.0