Soo I'm a tall girl (5'11). People say im attractive and im pretty confident in my height except for one problem, Im almost aalways attracted to guys shorter then me... Like waaay shorter. Basically every guy likes girls shorter then them ESPECIALLY short guys so they aren't usually interested in me. The shortest guy i've crushed on was 5'0" and the shortest guy i've dated was 5'7". So how do i get noticed by a shorter guy? Also would u date a girl far taller then you?
Most Helpful Guy
Yes I would. I'm 5'4" and would date a gal to 5'7" or so since gals might like to heels every now and then. Plus, I'd like to be able to kiss her on the lips when the mood strikes.
For some reason, I've noticed that I tend to attract gals that are taller than I am as a "ratio."1
Most Helpful Girl
Lol this question.
I'm 6'2". I'm also a shoe whore. You do the math -- I'm almost always the tallest person in the room, just about wherever I go.
I also love men, I love sex, and I always have. My tastes have always run in the direction of densely built, powerful male bodies -- which, more often than not, has meant men shorter than me.
My husband is 5'11" (and let me tell ya, that man makes me feel like a little girl when I'm standing next to him). I've had boyfriends as short as 5'7", and have played around with men quite a bit shorter.
Lemme just tell you this:
Yr statement "Basically every guy likes girls shorter than them" is WRONG.
90 percent of guys don't give shit number one, in the height department.
And, the 10 percent who do? Honestly, they're losers anyway, so yr better off being able to eliminate them from yr pool upfront. (If they actually feel like their masculinity is threatened just because a woman is taller... smh)
What you're seeing there is FEMALE preference, not male preference.
For reasons I -- and, presumably, you -- don't understand. WOMEN just cannot *stand* the idea of being in a relationship with a man who's shorter than they are. THAT is what you see.
Men seriously just don't care.
As for "How do I get noticed?" -- You may have to be a little more obvious/forward than usual in making it clear that you're actually interested in the boys you're interested in, since lots of boys will just ASSUME that you -- like most other women -- would be closed off to the possibility, if they're shorter than you.
This isn't a problem I generally had when I was single, because I am VERY brash, forward, and almost overbearing, lol. Don't know what yr personality is like, but... all I can say is, you can't afford to be a wallflower if you're interested in shorter guys. You'll just have to be more obvious than you otherwise might have been, because otherwise they'll assume you just won't be interested in them.
For the most part.4
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