We're both 21 and young. I can't imagine having a baby, much less dating someone with one at this age. I really would like to give him a chance but I don't want to get caught up in anyone's drama or deal with a child. However, I feel bad because many people seem to be having children this young now.
Bad he likes you while having baby with someone else. Says he doesn't know how to deal with his situation and is escaping to find a new "drug"... you or someone else.
Feel bad because not having a baby at this age. Be GLAD! They are expensive and needy creatures, you have plenty of time. Don't do it because he cann't afford the baby and girlfriend he has. If you think you are the only other girl he's looking at you are mistaken. He's out of control. I've met this guy and he's a disaster for all involved.
You are 21. You will find plenty of other guys to fall for that DON'T have a kid on the way. I would suggest you keep looking for them. This guy may be great and nice, but you're young and deserve to actually live your life, not help someone and their kid live theirs.
Depends on who the baby's mother is. If he just got out of a relationship, then I say stay away. But if he's serious, take it EXTREMELY slow, like, don't even consider a kiss until like the 5th or 6th date lol.
I personally wouldn't give him a chance because I wouldn't want to be involved in that mess. But do what you want, you only live once. I doubt he's wanting you to be a second mom to the kid, but it does feel like he's struggling with this situation.