When you really be yourself when trying to date, you scare people off. So most people put up a front to get them interested first, then you let yourself show once you're in a relationship. That's when they start complaining that you've changed. So what the fuck?
Most Helpful Guy
It means be honest about the kind of person you are, so the people that do like you will like you a lot. You're not meant to get along with and be liked by everyone you meet. Some personalities don't mix well. Doesn't mean be an asshole, but do be honest about what you think and feel. If they don't like you, then they don't like you. You shouldn't be in a relationship where you feel like you're always hiding who you really are. If no one seems to like you, then maybe there are some things you need to work on about yourself.
Just be aware that not being liked eeveryone is normal.1
Most Helpful Girl
no i dont. if YOU scare people off when you're being yourself, then you need to examine who you are, improve your qualities and make THAT become who you are. it's not fake, it's called GROWTH.
you aren't supposed to change, ur supposed to improve and if you aren't willing to do that, dont date.1