I keep asking my boyfriend how pretty he thinks I am on a scale of 1-10 and he said that its demeaning to give anyone a number and that he just thinks that I'm pretty and beautiful. But a year ago he said that I was an 8. I asked him about that and he said that if he did do that then he's a different person now and that it was wrong of him to do so.
I think he just doesn't want to tell me and hurt my feelings...
Most Helpful Guy
Jesus Christ woman... I can bet all of my money that if he actually WERE to give you an honest answer, you'd STILL find some fault with it. If it was 8/10, you'd cry over it not being 10. If it was 10/10, you'd cry about him lying or someshit.
Seriously... men don't like this kind of stuff.6
Most Helpful Girl
Stop fucking pestering him! He sounds like a genuinely kind dude! What you're doing is incredibly annoying and needy and likely to push him away if you don't stop.
Besides, he's RIGHT. You don't need a fucking number. He obviously thinks you're pretty and finds you attractive or else he wouldn't be with you, and assigning it a number is dehumanizing.3