3 months into our relationship, currently still dating... I was in Orlanda and my boyfriend and his friend were at his house drinking, which at the time I was okay with because I trusted he wouldn't do anything dumb while drinking. Well, I woke up to a bunch of drunk texts, some made me smile bc they were cute but then I got a weird feeling. I've never done this bc I know it's wrong, but I logged into his snapchat, he gave me the password awhile back. I saw that he sent this to a girl I had previously been friends with, he wasn't close w/ her but the friend he was drinking with knew her. He said, "please don't tell my girlfriend what I did, it would kill her. I'm so in love with her and it was a drunken mistake. I want to make her happy. I'm sorry." I called the girl, asked her what happened. She said he sent dick pics and asked her for nudes, but she never sent any back and told him he should stop bc of me. My boyfriend was still passed out, so I sent him tons of texts to wake up to. Later that day, we talked. I forgave him. He told me he'd earn my trust back. We've been dating for about 8 months now, and things have changed since then. I feel like I don't trust him as much, and I'm more aware of what's going on. Which isn't healthy. I worry a lot when he's with his guy friends about what he's doing, but we've both agreed that he wouldn't be drinking, unless him and I were both to go to a party. Is that wrong? I just need advice.
Most Helpful Guy
that is a good idea drinking together, because doing it separate can lead to problems when he might be a in a mood and your not around.1
Most Helpful Girl
That's why I can't forgive someone who's cheated or give them a second chance. I'll always have that mentality of when he's going to cheat again, is he with someone else etc. Its never the same again. That's just my opinion. But you gave him a second chance so I'd say stick to it.0
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