At work he sits next to me and rolls his chair so we sit back to back and feel each other. Or side by side so we can touch hands. He has hugged he so tight to soak me up at work. And we have hung out three times. We kissed and cuddled and played pool and had beers. He stayed the night once it was great. He told me the last time intense things he feels wanting to be with me but he has to get up early for work and it was late already 1 am and he wouldn't get sleep w me.
But it he has a ton going on in his life that he has shared and money is his priority so he works two jobs no days off.
He he is always worried about his daughter that he thinks is in a dangerous situation because of the mother being in a bad situation.
He has a lot he has shared that he doesn't tell people. I feel we have something and every time he is near me at work I melt.
i was asking if he had a gf? I was wondering since time passes till he is with me. And girls at work flirt at him. He keeps saying I am his only one. He holds me in the car and kisses me and looks at me and says it. He then texted me that again. I know girls must think he is cute and sweet and nice I dont blame them.
- Wait it out17% (7)43% (12)28% (19)Vote
- Don't waste your time54% (22)29% (8)43% (30)Vote
- Don't push him for time he made it clear15% (6)14% (4)14% (10)Vote
- Let him call when he wants to see you14% (6)14% (4)15% (10)Vote
Most Helpful Guy
I said not to waste your time. His daughter will be his top priority for a long time and making money is his next. So that leaves you as his # 3 priority which isn't a good place for you to be. I don't know how long you'll have to wait for him to find time good quality time for you but I have a hunch it'll be a long time. Meantime, being concerned about his daughter and trying to right the situation which he should try and do is not a problem you should be involved in or be waiting on the side months/years until he takes full custody of her or loses custody. There's probably child support involved or there will be. I know a situation here that's almost like the one you're in and I've often wondered why the girl doesn't try to find another guy that has much less problems. Actually, it's all up to you and what you think you deserve when it comes to a boyfriend as far as having adequate time together and his having money to spend on you at least sometimes. Don't you think it'd be nice to be his top priority? Even then relationship pose challenges. But right now you are really dealing with a lot. If you truly love each other and you know you can trust him completely, then he may be worth waiting for. But still expect a bumpy road ahead. It just seems like right now his plate is full. If he can't find a spot to put you in then I think it'd be better for you to think of moving on before you get much deeper with him and involved with his daughter too and maybe some other new developments as well. At your age I'd look for a new relationship that's much simpler unless your willing to take on the task at hand. Good luck! .2
Most Helpful Girl
If someone chooses to have a partner in life, then they make time. I have had this conversation with my SO recently. Because he took on a new job that means we basically lost ALL the time we originally got to spend together between his already busy work life. And I said, me getting 5 minutes with you while you're lying in bed with your eyes closed is not time together, you're just "fitting me in" you aren't "making time for me", you chose me, you chose a relationship.
A child, death in the family, money problems are all problems he has, and obviously he is going through a crap time, so not like you are expecting him to take a 2 week holiday for you. But yes, if you feel you aren't getting enough time with him, tell him that.2