I'm so sad. I don't know what I'm doing with my life. All I do is go to school and there I'm not very social. And I can't do anything. You have good advice, but I can't do anything. I've said things like this before and no one can help. I'm 16 and look good, IMO. It's weird when other people say they're shy.. They still function normally and do things with people. I'm too shy, I can't do any of that. I want a girlfriend but of course, I need to learn to be social with everyone first, before trying to talk to a girl. I don't see anything changing soon and it kills me. I don't even know why I'm writing this, I'm just going to get variations of the same old answers...
Oh well. I just wanted to share :(
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You're only 16 and thinking about this slight dilemma way too much. Who has game at 16? Wanna-be-playas? Half of these men are probably still virgins, no game, or more likely to be sexually inexperienced (even the ones who are outgoing and social). If you're handsome, then you're more than likely to attract more women than they would! Try being friends with her and getting to know her first. Remember, the key is to not to get women to like you, but for you to be more selective on who wins you over. After all you're good-looking, why wouldn't they?
Never say you can't d anything. Everyone is GOOD at something. You just haven't figured it out yet! Some people are late bloomers, others are not. It's not that serious.0