We've been dating since February and we're in love with each other and we know we want to get married, but everyone still seems to think we are spending way too much time with each other and claiming that I need to maintain my "independence". I don't understand what the big deal is. if you love someone you spend all your time with them. I Don't have a problem with it he doesn't have a problem with it so why do my friends and my family have a problem with it? are they jealous? do they hate him?
I love him so much I'd die if we ever broke up. the thought of it makes me cry
Most Helpful Guy
You are in your 30s wth does their opinion matter, you are a grown woman And can do what you want.0
Most Helpful Girl
I think they should get over it. That is how it goes at the beginning and it is such a great fun time and I would just go with it. In the long run you do not want to lose your independence though, so make sure you still do have your own life and spend time with your friends. But, this is how it goes at the beginning and if they should be happy. When my friends start dating new people I do not get angry when they spend a lot of time with them, because I realize now that is just how it goes and when I start seeing someone I probably would do the same. Maybe try spending a little time with them now though just to appease them and it is healthy after all. Then maybe they will back off.0