Alright, so typically I don't like white dudes. I'm not a racist, I just don't like them that much. But, this one white dude and I were talking and he really grew on me. I wanna go out with him and he wants the same, but from experience before white dudes have been assholes towards me, and kinda racist. Plus, my parents have that 1950s and 1960s mentality and aren't very accepting of interracial dating. Our relationship probably wouldn't be THAT serious anyway where he needs to meet my parents, but it'd be too much work to avoid them, so I rather do the mature thing and tell them.
Most Helpful Guy
i had this feeling when i first started dating outside my race,(black guy dating white girl) i was concerned about how my family will see her and how hers will see me.
both families ended up loving each other, and it was actaully one of my better relationships just do what makes your happy1
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Most Helpful Girl
who cares what others think and want. Its your life. I know its hard to deal with your parents not liking it but they will get over it. It may take a long time but remember, its your life and your happiness at the end of the day. Its hard to meet a guy that you can really connect with nowadays
So question is: What do you want? What makes you happy? Do you like him enough to deal with the racism tht comes along with it at times? If your parents really love you, they will accept it eventually but expect that to take a while. You do what you want to do bc they are not living your life. you are. Color shouldn't matter when it comes to you liking the guy. We are all one race and that's the human race.
Follow your heart. Not what your parents say and the color of his skin or you will never be happy living your life to please others. be with the person for how they treat you and make you feel and forget about what the world thinks.1