Hello. A anon here, I recently hit a big number. My 100th rejection. Now before you go off on me, I have been rejected since 7th grade and still going (in college now). I have done everything and probably still will to not wanting a girl because of loneliness, not wanting to get in a girls pants, treating them as equal, respect when they say no, and strictly stay in boundaries. First off, I wasn't sexually attracted to any of my crushes because having dirty thoughts clouded my mind and it might have prevent me from liking a girl as a person. Heck I argued to a guy who stared at a girls butt, and whispered something under his breath. I won the argument but he said I need to chill and relax. Second is I stay within my boundaries even if a girl is sexually attracted to me, I'll just brush if off and treat her like a queen and not girl that's a peice of flesh (or a living sex toy). And third is I am so highly respectful of my crushes that I dare not look at their bodies (butt and boobs). Heck their were times they wore certain things, and I still did not look. I have crazy self control. In fact I always give side hugs to girls because I don't wanna feel their breast because I don't wanna seem like a guy that wants her for her body.
I would like feedback on what you think of me. Especially girls, would really like that.
Most Helpful Girl
like anon said, we don't want a rag that listens to everything we say, it's nice that you're a nice guy but being nice doesn't get you very far according to this great century. try to come out of your shell, you can think dirty thoughts about girls it's normal, don't be so uptight and most importantly don't be a little bitch. we don't like bitches, that's what girls are for.0
Most Helpful Guy
yeah you kinda sound like the typical nice guy. Nothing wrong with that, except for the fact that you rarely make any impact on the women you meet. You're so concerned with being nice and respectful, you show next to no sexual interest in women at all. Showing interest is more than just asking a girl out. There a lot of non verbal communication too that you're probably afraid of doing because you dont want to come across as a creep or w/e. It just seems like you are putting women on too high of a pedestal0