I am 5'1 (155 cms) and 100 pounds (45 kgs). I am also very pale, my Chinese boyfriend is always telling me that he loves I am small and white. Is this a cultural thing? I have read some things that eastern men like petite girls with pale complexions but I do not want to sound racist! I am just curious in the difference of beauty between Asia and America! He is 6'2" and 220 pounds.
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I think traditionally Asain culture values females that are small and pale. Pretty sure it goes way back to when patriarchy existed (still does in some families) and men were expected to be bigger than women since they were "in charge". That's prolly why most Asian guys want a girl who's smaller than them. I'm an Asian girl but I'm 5'3" and chubby so my parents are always telling me guys won't date me cause I'm big HAHA but I don't really care about that shit cause of rather a guy dated me cause he liked my personality.1