So the first time I met this guy, he likes me immediately I see, because it's very obvious. Just because I saw he likes me so I didn't care much about him, but then I can't help liking him more and more. The second time we date, he tries to kiss me but I stepped back, I wanted to kiss him but I don't know why I did that, but then we drank a lot and we still kissed and had a crazy night, and we slept. We meet 3 times in 3 weeks, because exam period comes and we are super busy.
He just broke up with his girlfriend, we I was with him, his girlfriend kept calling him. I mean, he was with her for years and because his girlfriend calls him too much and not independent anymore so he thinks it's not a healthy relationship so he ended, but well, his girlfriend (or ex) still keeps crushing his phone all the time. Sometimes he got really annoyed and shut down the phone and later when he turns it on, tens of missed calls were there.
And now we have to prepare for our crazy exams, both of us are at home. We live far and want to concentrate on exams, so we can't see each other in 5 weeks. The last time I see, he said something like, "see you in 5 weeks, send me messages, I don't want to make you to wait for me for 5 weeks, but.." I said I can wait a bit.
And then I haven't heard about him until now, it's been 5 days or so. I can see he always turns off his phone, he just turns it on for a few times a day (we really need to study a lot lol), maybe because he doesn't want to be controlled by his ex or just maybe he wants to concentrate, I don't know.
So what should I do?
Those replies are very interesting, girls say wait and see, whereas all guys say move on. Is it because the guys know that guys are real jerks and cannot be trustable?
Don't wear your heart on your Sleeve, Should he Leave. It seems with even an "EX" that may still Mark an X in his Softie Spot, @kvjing. It appears they have a Bit of His and Her History and no matter how Many times She 'Still keeps crushing his phone,' He still has Not... Blocked her Go Slow with Joe, Focus on your 'Crazy exams, And just see what happens later. This may be more of a Challenge than his own Exams are, So with Space, Time is your Best Bet. I give you an "A" Myself for all of Your Effort. However, There is a limit, And I do believe I know you will Pass my own "Exam" with this Man. Good luck with everything. xx
He is just sleering with you turns his phone off cause your not the only one he is sleeping with... if your find with that then keep the relationship. I went to College had many exams also had many women... and when I met my wife in college all I wanted to do was be with her. All the time even when I needed to study. Soo...
It is still pretty new, you are both busy and he doesn't like that his ex is so clingy. So, since it is newer you do not need to text every single day or anything and you two are both very busy anyways. You could send him a text every few days, you don't have to wait for him to text you. Also, since he turns his phone off then he is obviously not on it very often and not one that finds his phone that important. I say in the next five weeks send him a text once or twice a week and obviously he is texting you a little too. Just play it cool since he is busy and doesn't want clinginess.
A watched pot "never" boils is the message that binds all these opinions together, however diverse they seem to be. When you begin to fill your life with other things/people to do, THEN he might surface and explain all things past to you. Obviously, you are not yet the air he needs in order to breathe and other things unresolved may be afoot, sucking down his free time, e. g. girlfriend trying to get him back, work/school, family, health...
Sounds (kinda) like a long-distance relationship. Long distance relationships don't work. Plus, he is going to be super sensitive to any needy or clingy behaviors because of his ex. He may not even be over her yet.
You should still try to contact him and either see if he has a really good excuse, or get closure so you don't have to wonder if he is still interested.
I think he is a player and you should learn from this experience and never trust a guy too easily even if he seems to like you at the beginning. It sounds like he repeated the story with his ex-girlfriend with you as well. He did the same thing like in her case, he refused to answer the phone. I think you should find a better guy for you. This one doesn't deserve you.
neither, get on the phone now, go out and buy condoms, get busy.
He's still seeing his ex. No one lets an ex have that much control over their life unless they like it or have a child they are raising.
Your question should be "Should I forget about him or become his 2nd girlfriend?"
in my opinion he's just using you to forget about her. From what I see is that she likes him a lot and knows he likes her. I wouldn't call a guy 10 times a day unless I do know we can get back together. If I were you I would move on