I have a really fun conversation with this guy on tinder and he wants to meet. Only he keeps making kinda sexual comments so I don't know if he just wants to hook up, cause Im not into that.
Do guys usuallyuse tinder only for hook ups?
Most Helpful Guy
Are u into him? Just bang away op0
Most Helpful Girl
Probably not, if you're looking for something serious. Him making sexual comments so early on suggests that that's what he's all about.
As for guys usually using tinder just for hookups, I suppose it depends on where you live. In Finland it seems to be used as both a dating app and a hookup app, a lot of my friends have found current and past long-term partners through tinder. But I also know a few people who only use it to find hookups.
If you want to find something serious through tinder, you'll have to weed out the bad ones from the good ones. A guy making sexual comments right off the bat is indeed a "red flag" if you're looking for something a bit more serious. You could also just straight up ask the guys you end up talking to what they're looking for - only hookups or something serious? I feel like in the long run, guys on tinder would probably not lie about looking for something serious, since there are plenty of girls on there who only want to hook up as well and it would be a waste of time to lie to someone and put on an act. Be wary anyway though, and analyze their words and general behavior towards you. Those who only want to hook up tend to be a lot more impatient (since they're looking for instant gratification - casual sex - instead of something long-term).
So yeah. Don't be afraid to just ask the guy what he really wants.0