My "ex" from last year and I started hanging out again, and we're sorta bestfriends, sorta friends with benefits and sorta like each other.
So on Saturday, he asked me if I wanted to move in with him. And I said YEEES.
Later that night, I asked him what was going on with me and him, and he said that first of all he thinks we fits better as friends, and second of all he has to think about his lifegoals, and a girlfriend will stand in the way of that.
I know I know, he friendzoned me. He was all kissing me and holding my hand last week, then he asked me to move in and now he friendzoned me. Anyways, he calls me every day to talk about the appartments he has found and all.
But I am just feeling sick. I hope all day that he doesn't call, and I feel awful.
I don't want to be his move-in-buddy. A buddy he can brofist and be cool around.
I want to be his girlfriend.
Is it a bad idea to move in together?
Most Helpful Guy
If you're questioning whether you should move in with him, don't. If you were ready you would just know it and not have doubts.1
Most Helpful Girl
No, you shouldn't move in with him.1