Voted B. In my ideal world, everyone would be upfront with everyone about stuff; Nobody plays mind games or toys with other people's feelings. I'd rather know the harsh truth and be hurt by it than to believe in a lie or be left hanging in the dark, wondering what's going on. And Honestly, I don't think anyone wins or loses in these situations that you mentioned.
as a guy who been here before and took both routes in different situations. i say just ignore her. make your self look like you have more value than her. and let her know that she missed out. dont increase her ego or what not by acting like you waited for her (thats how she's will take it )
if you want to be with her than by all means, get with her but that is my 2 cents
What in the world is going on with you? The girl broke your heart she didn't give you AIDS. I've had my heart broken plenty of times, that doesn't mean I should kill them or put them through emotional torment. Why would you even think that? It's not that serious. I'd say leave her alone and focus on some self growth. Because you're just childish.
Its pretty simple no contact = not interested applies to both men and women, no one would ignore someone they are not interested in. It may be worth trying to get closure, unless you feel you can't control your anger about it.
You should see a therapist. Seriously. You have so much anger
Maybe she did not hurt your ego intentionally? How do you know she was with another guy? You need to look at the facts. Do you definitely know that she likes you? If so, why the hate? It sounds like she has no idea how you're feeling
I swear I read this same qn the other day sayin she DID contact u?
To make sure I am following you.. Post says, for five months you haven't contacted each other? Okay.. Now she's reaching back out to you? Maybe she's seeing you were a great guy and wants to try again.. Don't ruin it with option A.