my girlfriend is 29, I am 25. she has snapchat and I've noticed that anytime we fight she posts a selfie or vid of herself on snapchat. Any other time she doesn't really snap a lot. Is this immature? Is she just looking for attention when she's not with me? Is this normal behaviour should I think nothing of it?
- normalVote A
- immatureVote B
- looking for attentionVote C
Most Helpful Girl
Well personally, I do believe that to be extremely immature and I think that it is obvious she is doing it for attention as well or perhaps wants you to see it and feel guilty as a result of it or simply because she wants to make you feel jealous.
Furthermore, it shouldn't matter that you two were fighting. What should matter is how you resolve it and right now, I'm sorry if this is harsh, buy this is what it looks like from my perspective. It looks like you two aren't very strong together and say if you were to break up, she's be the type of girl who wouldn't really care and move on. I'm sorry if I'm just stereotyping here0
Most Helpful Guy
Sounds like she's looking for validation of self worth after a fight.
That's normal for people to do.
My question is, why are you fighting so much? try fixing that.0