I have always wanted to join a nudist club in my area, and have found one. I have never gone to a nudist club or resort before, but feel it would be fun to try out with a guy who I am currently trying to start a relationship with. We are long distance but planning on meeting soon for the first time, and thought this nudism thing could be an activity we do as a couple if it works out. I just don't know how to ask him without scaring him off. Should I try? If so, how should I go about it?
Most Helpful Guy
REALLY? This seems like a good idea, to you? No offense, but if I was the guy, I wouldn't even come and meet you, if I knew you were planning that!!
Is he a nudist? You said you aren't, so how do you know you will even handle it well?
For guys, meeting, after long distance, then going to a nudist club. TOO MUCH, TOO QUICK!!!
How about just meeting, having a few dinners, seeing some local sites, watching a few movies, cuddling, kissing, a little foreplay, then sex.
Get comfortable, together, for about 6 months to a year, THEN suggest a nudist thing, AFTER YOU have been there, to see if you are even comfortable with it!!0
Most Helpful Girl
If you want to, sure. Nothing wrong with that. Just casually mention it to him next time you see him.0