So I have been reading up on dating, and being self confident, self respect and I am a bit stuck.
You have to love yourself, be confident and accept yourself for who you are.
So if I am a shy introvert, I have to accept that and be happy with that. Which I really used to be fine with, until I decided I wanted a girlfriend and started dating and quickly had my heart smashed into a million pieces.
Dating, people say you have to change, you have to be more social, go out, go clubbing, go to bars, which I am really not comfortable with... and then I feel bad because I am not an extrovert, even though I try.
Should I be happy being an introvert, I really would love if I was a extroverted party animal who could go clubbing and pick up tons of girls but that is just not me.
Or should I change myself to find a girl?
Most Helpful Girl
Don't change yourself for someone else, there's nothing wrong with being introverted.0
Most Helpful Guy
Don't change yourself! You'll end up attracting someone who is not right for you! Stay true to yourself! Any rejection you face is not your fault, it just means you are most likely incompatible! The best woman will be the one who loves the shy introverted you. And there are women that like that!0