This guy called me a dissappointment (the title is misleading so y'all are gonna click on it and answer:))
Because at the age of 23 i had no ''real'' friends or no friends at all, a sucky education, no car, live at home with my mother and basically no ''purpose' he said i should go and dissappoint someone else... i felt awful about myself for the last year, he said i wasn't dateable and have nothing to offer... i thought he really liked me... how can a woman be a dissappointment? exactly? i felt awful past year, literally got depressed now im almost 24 and still feel awful... how can someone call someone that? i was already feeling awful about my life...
Most Helpful Guy
women are different.. if a man love a woman.. he'll want to get more of her.. he won't get enough of her.. he'd be so happy that you're there for him all the time.. he'll want the best for you as if you're his daughter.. he'll encourage you.. this guy.. he didn't like you.. you're lucky.. he was after a girl who would give him other things other than love and beauty.. you're lucky he revealed himself.. don't settle for that.. be proud.. you're a girl.. you have beauty.. emotions.. kindness. you can be a mother.. a caring partner.. if you want to work.. do that for yourself.. do only what you like.. this is your life.. be with someone who wants you for you.. not for "what you have to offer" your money or your place or your status to show off to his family and friends.. you're too valuable for that.. you're the treasure men work all their lives to get to.. and work then to make her safe and happy and provide for her to make the family she's the heart of... what you're feeling is wrong.. really.. be happy you got rid of that guy.. move on.. you're 24.. the best is what's coming.. trust me0
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Most Helpful Girl
one opinion of someone isn't reallly truth, just a perspective at a time in your life. The tables can always turn but it just depends on the next series of choices that you will make, which will no longer see you in this situation again.0