My girlfriend is 30 and I've noticed that for that age she seems a tad immature. She cares more about smoking weed, drinking going out. Instagram, snapchat selfies etc. She hangs out and talks to her 19 year old cousin too, they've gotten piercings together and all of that. Is this common amongst women of this age? or is it just her? and if so is this a new trend? I'm 26 and have already grown out of this lifestyle, am I wrong fro thinking she should be more mature?
- CommonVote A
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Most Helpful Girl
I'm 21. I feel like and I've been told I am waaayyy above my age level. So I feel like I am mature enough I wasn't brought up rich or fancy I chose to be this way. We all have a choice here in America and I chose to be above your average Jane. Now some women just don't see life that way, their philosophy of adult hood is either different or just chose to have a life style like that. Bring it up talk it out see how it goes if she doesn't feel like she doesn't fit your life needs then dumb her find someone else who got it together1
Most Helpful Guy
Its very common amoung unmarried 30 year old career women to act this way I see it all the time. They might have an impressive career and make good money but that doesn't make them a good catch. Take one of my ex's who's now 33 she is still living the same partygirl lifestyle as when she was 18 at college, she works as a lawyer at her Dad's firm, live with her parents, spends all her money on crap, has no savings, cannot handle basic lifeskill tasks, can't cook, won't clean and sleeps around (not when we were together). Basically though I cared for her I had to break up with her as she had no ambitions and was just not marriage material. Its nice having someone to wake up with and to have sex with for a while but you got to ask yourself do we want the same things. If I were you I'd dump her and move on. Im currently married to a beautiful 24 year old who has her head screwed on.0