Experience has told me that girls may say they choose 1, but most really want 2. Why else is it that "50 Shades of Grey" is a best-seller, but "Penniless Poet Boyfriend" isn't? The statistics tell the truth.
I wonder if normal well adjusted people will ever be an option in these polls.
I'd go for the first guy. What positives would the second one have about him, aside from being financially settled? I don't see any, tbqh. I could get by on my own as it's not like I'm unemployed so... I'd hate to interfere in the relationship an 'egotistic alpha males' has with himself.