Once a friend comes forth with his feeling and you turn him down. Do you expect him to not cut you out of your life? Do you expect him to stick around and watch you date other guys that you find better than him and give you a shoulder to cry on and basically be your puppy?
Most Helpful Girl
if he wants to never talk to me again that's his choice. But I can't help who I am attracted to. I don't expect any guy to be my "puppy." But I expect my friends to act like friends. My friendship is not a consolation prize. You don't get to pretend to be my friend and then ditch me just because I'm not attracted to you. If you don't want to be my friend, then fine, that's your choice. But don't pretend it's my fault.0
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Most Helpful Guy
In my experience girls do expect you to stick around, seemingly oblivious to the pain it is causing you or would cause you as they date people you know you are better than who proceed to treat them badly! The only sensible course of action, if you truly care for her, is to tell her that you are her friend if she needs you, but put as much distance as possible between you day to day.0