I'm a 29 year old female. College grad, career girl, workaholic. People always tell me I'm very beautiful, that I look like I'm 22/23 years old, shocked that I'm almost 30 and haven't had kids. Almost like..."how did you make it to 29 without getting pregnant?" someone literally asked me that once. It's called birth control and safe sex... not that hard. I never wanted a kid out of wedlock, and in this day in age it's hard meeting a guy that doesn't have kids. I just want someone to settle down with who doesn't have kids because I want us to both experience being first-time parents together. And I would feel awkward being a step mom to another child. So... do you think it's rare to find a 28-32 years old man/woman who doesn't have kids? Is it unrealistic these days?
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Yeah it is, it's basically almost impossible. I've accepted the fact that I'm gonna' be dating women with kids.
Here's what I've learned. Get closer to wealthy areas where housing is expensive and sqft is small... you'll see people like yourself, 30-40 w/ no kids. So im talking beach communities, City centers etc. If you live in an area (suburb community) that's strongly Christian even more difficult. They get married and have kids pretty young. I live in DT San Diego... all of my neighbors are my age or older, never married and childless. I drive back home and 20-23 y/o are having their 3rd kid.
Really depends on where you live. This should be an issue. You made this sacrifice, you know what you were getting into waiting to have kids. I mean your still young and can have kids, you have time.1