COMING from a dating standpoint. We see countless posts (especially from males) complaining about being single, and how he/she struggles to get a date, but how many people on GAG consider themselves good at getting males/females? Just curious.
I talk to girls all the time, approach them with confidence, and I think I look good, but I'm still not popular (We seem to live in an era where people solely meet online these days).
God... I am HORRIBLE I think at it. I am always in my own world, and if a cute guy smiles at me... I turn away or run away LOL even though deep down I want a guy. I just don't think I am ready yet cause Im still working on a lot of personal issues LOL it sucks ahha I think I am pretty, but I literally RUN ahahahahah
I wish that I could offer some dazzling insight, but I cannot. When I was a teenager and then a 20-something I could almost not get a date. Whatever it was that women wanted, I was the opposite of that. About age 30 I gave up. I stopped trying to engage with women, stopped asking women on dates, the lot. I went monk. Women began to become interested in me, big time. For a quarter of a century I have made zero effort with women. Women go out of their way to speak with me, invite me to coffee or lunch dates and sometimes proposition me outright. I am polite, but I am no longer interested. Too much pain, bitterness and too many unhappy memories. It seems that the less interested that I am, the more that women are attracted. Women are strange.
To be honest, I've never had a problem with attracting the males I was attracted to, I've never gotten turned down but then again I don't just ask a random person out who so happens to be good looking. Takes a bit and when I finally do make the plunge, its always been in my favour.
I don't really have a problem getting men, but I have almost always been single, the only " relationship " I had was online... I have a problem developing strong feelings for men. I only deeply liked 2 guys so far.
I'm pretty decent at it, not a like a professional pick up artist but I could pretty much get a date whenever I want to. I know enough girls that have a thing for me so if I get desperate I can get a quick fling. I also know how to approach random girls well enough to get them to give me their number. Another big part that guys miss out on are the signs when a girl is interested in you, I swear some guys are fucking clueless.
I think I do a pretty good job at talking to girls and being the kind of guy a girl wants to show off to their friends and family. I'm just the right amount of "bad boy"/ "confident" to where it teases the girl and makes her bite her lips around me but also a kind man to where she'll always feel safe and secure in my arms and has a genuine good time with me. I'm proud of me and how I was raised. And learned a few things from watching the best =D
I had hundreds of friends when i was a teenager and leaving high school. Everybody liked me and i barely had to try. I had charisma and i genuinely gave a fuck about people and respected them. People can sense who you are from your words and your actions. If your not comfortable in your own skin nobody will be comfortable around you amd won't want to know you. Girls and guys that applies to. Youve met somebody whos making all the right faces amd noises but there's something off putting you can't quite put your finger on. You miss nothing and you can't hide your true self from others. Your transmitting your true self every time you open your mouth or gesture or make a face. Basically clean the inside of the cup thats all thats important and the outside will follow suit. Thats what charisma is and thats what draws people to you like a magnet draws metal
umm, I dont know whats the standard number of women checking out an attractive person. Also I'm not so confident to stare at women to check whether she's is attracted to me or not. Having said that I experienced some days, when literally tons of women were staring/looking at me in my left and right. Yes, I got approached by many women in club indirectly (also by men).
To be honest other then the occasional nice ass i get from someone every now and then not very good i look kinda thuggish because of my naturally mean lookin face hell i had a hard as hell time getting with my boyfriend.