COMING from a dating standpoint. We see countless posts (especially from males) complaining about being single, and how he/she struggles to get a date, but how many people on GAG consider themselves good at getting males/females? Just curious.
I talk to girls all the time, approach them with confidence, and I think I look good, but I'm still not popular (We seem to live in an era where people solely meet online these days).
@cth19690 Great points!
Most Helpful Girl
God... I am HORRIBLE I think at it. I am always in my own world, and if a cute guy smiles at me... I turn away or run away LOL even though deep down I want a guy. I just don't think I am ready yet cause Im still working on a lot of personal issues LOL it sucks ahha I think I am pretty, but I literally RUN ahahahahah1
Most Helpful Guy
I wish that I could offer some dazzling insight, but I cannot.
When I was a teenager and then a 20-something I could almost not get a date. Whatever it was that women wanted, I was the opposite of that.
About age 30 I gave up. I stopped trying to engage with women, stopped asking women on dates, the lot. I went monk.
Women began to become interested in me, big time.
For a quarter of a century I have made zero effort with women. Women go out of their way to speak with me, invite me to coffee or lunch dates and sometimes proposition me outright. I am polite, but I am no longer interested.
Too much pain, bitterness and too many unhappy memories.
It seems that the less interested that I am, the more that women are attracted.
Women are strange.0