Hello I posted a question about this a few days ago, my boyfriend of 6 yeas left to go to Spain for a month on Wednesday. Now as he new I wasn't happy about it but obviously I didn't stop him. I just wanted to go on holidays with him as it would have been out first time going away. Anyways everytime we talk while he's away. We fight? It's horrible, but it could be the smallest thing for example, he rang me last night and we where chatting and I suggested phone sex sometime while he's gone or even just send him a few pics, he started shouting saying'I don't need pics I don't need to wank fine stop forcing me to do things' so I said okay. And he was like I'm hanging up bye. So then he text me and was saying absolutely horrible things ' you make me so angry, you make me fill up with so much hate, your so unsupportive and everyone else who talks to me while I'm away is full of love unlike you' he also said things like ' you keep starting fights with me I'll lose my interest for you, he told me to shut up, stop typing. Or if I sent him one more message he was going to block me' if I don't understand something he gets mad and says ' are you a retard seriously ' he called me a as hole and said I was ruining his holiday ( he went with one friend. Who I have never met) I text him when he texts me. I don't hound him. I know he's away. But it's like everytime I say something he just doest like it and starts a fight and then blames it all on me and twists it then I'm saying sorry and half the time I don't even no why I am? He hasn't texted or rang me since. What should I do from here now? Please I really need to no what I should do. I do love him and he tells me he loves me it's been 6 years. But he has acted like this even at home but not as bad. He said if it wasn't for his family he'd smash his phone up so I can't Contact him. I said I was just upset he went and he said things like'awwh poor you boo hoo feel so sorry for you ( just being smart) we are 23.
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Seriously? Don't stay with that man. What you're describing is an unhealthy relationship. The fact that he says he loves you (wish may be perfectly true) doesn't change the fact that he isn't treating you the way anyone should treat his or her partner, and also what makes it a relationship, and not just two people who hate each other.
Even if he loves you, don't stay with someone who is being so clearly disrespectful. Even if he loves you, even if he promises to make up for it, to behave from now on or anything such. If breakup is the only thing that has him change his behavior, then maybe breakup is what he needs. And you deserve better.1
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