My boyfriend is a little private about his phone.. he will turn it away or stand behind me or leave the room when he even so much as looks at his phone. He never has it open around me.. to me this seems suspicious and I'm very cautious of guys talking to other girls behind my back.. I've told him this many times. So tonight we were drinking with a group of friends and he kept walking away to use his phone. Then one time, I walked up behind him and saw he was texting a girl. I sorta got a little mad.. I told my friend, a mutual friend of ours, what I saw and she asked him about it. Turns out it was his cousin. I know I probably should have asked him first before getting upset, but let's say he has a history of unfaithfulness and is always so sneaky about his phone so I automatically assumed the worst.. also I just recently started dating a few weeks him so I haven't really met family yet, so there was really no way for me to know. And it's not like I made a big scene or anything. I just simply walked away, asked my friend if she knew who Jessica was, and left it at that. Then she took it upon herself to ask him when I was just gonna let it go til a later time and ask who it was.. also I was sorta drunk so...
Most Helpful Guy
Lol that guy sounds full of it. No one does that unless they have something to hide and I am 99% sure that wasn't his cousin.1
Most Helpful Girl
You shouldn't be embarrassed it's super suspicious for him to leave the room every time he uses his phone or to turn the screen. And LOL are you sure it was his cousin? I've heard that lie many times. i bet if you left the room everytime you got a text he'd think you were cheating on him.0