My girlfriend has been friends with this girl even before we got together we are both 20, they were friends in highschool, this girl doesn't like me at all and she is lesbian, my girlfriend when we got together informed me she was bi and I was okay with that. But now my girlfriend friend is saying that I'm a cheater and whispering sweet things in my girlfriend ear and she even had this other girl that she knows lie and pretend she knew who I was saying my name and saying that I was flirting with her etc, saying stuff that only my girlfriend should know, but she knows these things because my girlfriend tells her friend about us, you know how girls talk. Now the lesbian girl likes my girlfriend and apparently they have been together before in the past and she is telling my girlfriend I'm a pig and lying chauvinistic man, i don't get it, lol, I have been nothing but the best guy, I'm not an asshole I have treated her and lavished her the way a girl should be treated , and now I have all this drama and me being painted as a sexist chauvinistic guy all because this lesbian girl wants my girlfriend, and now my girlfriend has been treating me differently and has gone over to this other girls house, she just doesn't seem to believe me and believes her friend more, after all the stuff we've been through, I asked this in another forum but the girls said that I should let her have a lesbian relationship and that if I dont I would be controlling and that I should get over it and girls in my life have said that I should get over it and stop being a child about it too, I just don't get it lol, women have confused me all my life, am i really in the wrong, am I a bad guy? Girls can seriously destroy your reputation, I really don't know what do, advice?
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Whatever other girls in that other forum are dumb fucks. This is your girlfriend, you want to be with her, and someone else is trying to take her away by talking shit about you. It doesn't matter whether it's another girl or a guy. If your girlfriend wants a relationship with that chick instead then let her go, like end it. I think it says something that she doesn't trust your word when you've given her no reason to assume you've been unfaithful otherwise. Sit your girlfriend down and talk to her. Ask her what she's insecure about, how you can make it better, promise that you haven't been and never will do anything to cheat or hurt her. Let her tell you everything that's making her doubt you, and if she's unwilling to do so, then tell her very clearly that you are extremely hurt by this situation because you don't think you deserve this type of treatment, especially because you've done nothing wrong and she has nothing to prove that you've done anything, and that you will be leaving because you deserve to be treated better by someone who claims to love you.1
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