I meet a girl on the internet who is 6 years younger than me, and right from the get go I told her I wasn't ready for a relationship of any kind. Well a couple weeks later there was some big time flirting, and some things happened sexually over the internet. She is afraid of getting hurt, so how do I remind her and tell her that things just will not work out between us in anyway.
If you respond with an other answer, please leave a comment at what the other thing would be. Thanks
- Just Block Her29% (2)0% (0)17% (2)Vote
- Tell her that I don't like her14% (1)20% (1)17% (2)Vote
- Remind her I don't want a relationship with her29% (2)20% (1)25% (3)Vote
- Tell her I meet somebody else0% (0)20% (1)8% (1)Vote
- Other28% (2)40% (2)33% (4)Vote
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I voted other.
It's time for you to man up and tell her that you made a mistake. You knew that you weren't ready for a relationship but you lead her on anyways and that was wrong. Ask for her forgiveness and assure her that she didn't do anything wrong, you are the one who is completely at fault for taking advantage of the situation.
If you actually like the girl and might be open to having a relationship with her in the future then when asking her if she'll forgive you tell her that you still want to talk to her. If you definitely don't want a relationship with her you have to tell her that and assure her again that it's not her fault, you're the one to blame and it would be best to not talk to her anymore.
I'm not going to sugar-coat it, this girls going to feel like shit regardless, but the piont I'm trying to make is that you want to get her angry and hate your guts rather than become self-conscious. If you are going to break a girl's heart it's not fair to her if you make her doubt herself in the process.2