I noticed that after our second date Saturday, he had disabled his OKCupid account and this made me very happy (a lot of women have to nag about this), but scared at the same time. Did he really like me that much?
I didn't mention it to him, and after I met his family for Memorial Day yesterday, I noticed today that he had enabled his account again.
I actually told him last night that I had another date for this coming weekend planned and told the guy I was seeing someone else, whom I was clicking with more, and didn't want to lead him on. He told me it made him feel special.
Then, I see he's back today, which could have totally been him checking to see if I deactivated my account and, upon seeing I haven't, adding his account back.
When does this come up? We haven't talked about exclusivity yet, but his mom introduced me as his girlfriend. I didn't want to make it more awkward by correcting her. We shared our first kiss last night and during some of our conversation, I told him I wasn't about sharing passwords for social media, or going through phones - like his psycho ex - and he said that he was relieved.
I guess I just don't know when this whole dating profile thing will come up and if it will do so naturally? I don't want to seem like I'm rushing things or not being trusting because, technically, we're just casually dating and we're not a couple yet. Any advice?
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I met my boyfriend on tinder, turned out he actually lived 3 doors down the hall from me haha, anyway, we never had to discuss deactivating our account. It was never brought up. I think we both just did it on our own time and never expected the other to do it in a specific amount of time. To this day I don't think it was ever brought up lol if it weren't for me using his phone some times I wouldn't even know if he had it or not, other then the fact I trust him. So I say, don't make an issue out of it. Until you guys make things exclusive just always assume he's seeing other people and if he meets someone else in the meantime then it just wasn't meant to be.0
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