What's a deal breaker in a relationship for you?


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Most Helpful Guy

  • Not physically attractive
    Lazy
    Selfish
    Cold
    Boring
    Excessive drinking
    Smoking
    Bigot/racist/sexist
    Lacks a sense of humour
    Promiscuous
    Prudish
    Judgmental
    High maintenance
    Bitchy
    Gossipy
    Plays mind games
    Doesn't show affection
    Quick to anger
    Can't compromise
    Gold-digger

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Most Helpful Girl

  • Anti-LGBT.
    Racist.
    Kills animals for living or any other reason.
    Waiting till marriage to have sex.
    Bad hygiene.
    Religious.
    Doesn't like dogs.
    Sexually closed-minded, not willing to try new things.
    Has sexually transmitted diseases.
    Cheating / has a past of cheating.
    No physical / emotional attraction (obviously).
    Abusive towards people or animals.
    Doesn't like affection.
    Has an addiction that seriously harming him (heavy drugs, cigarettes, alcohol) and not willing to fight it.
    Gets easily offended, can't take a joke.
    A bitter ass motherfucker.
    Can't accept me for who I am, tries to change me.

    There's certainly more, but those are all that come to mind right now.

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What Guys Said 14

  • Inflexibility. can't stand people with the "its my way or the highway" attitude.
    (though i tend to have a similar approach, im open to compromise at all times, which is something most of those people lack)

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  • Cheating
    Smoking
    Disrespectful
    Lack of good Hygiene
    Not interested in Marriage
    Not interested in Having kids

    I'm sure the list could go on lol

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  • Cheating. Period.

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  • Cheating hands down. I have a zero tolerance policy for it - it is 100% always the cheaters fault. Always.
    But I could also add smoking and drugs to my list.

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  • Being a man lol
    uhhhh trust issues have been the #1 cause of undermining relationships for me so I try to identify that early on now

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  • There a list.

    Cheating is a big one.

    Close mind or one track mind.
    I like my girls who can be swayed

    Smart girls
    I don't like smart girls I don't wanna debate. you can advise Me but never a debate. I feel like woman should ride or die. my best friend should be the one to stop me from doing something terrible.

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  • Addiction to drugs and/or alcohol
    Dishonest
    Parties too much
    Bad hygiene
    Prudish
    Lack of humility

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  • not modest, CUSSING, CAN'T COOK, TALKS ABOUT MY FAMILY, & DOESN'T MIND HER OWN BUSINESS.

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  • Closeminded
    Smoker
    Racist
    Disrespectful

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  • If she turns out to be a feminist, or a mudshark.

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  • Religious differences

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  • Bad hygiene.

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  • Religious or government/cop/military sympathizer

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  • Indifference.

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What Girls Said 11

  • Cheating
    Lying
    As someone's already mentioned: Not willing to talk about it when there's a problem and/or not willing to fix the problem
    Closed minded
    Never listens
    Selfish & shows little to no care toward me
    Too flirtatious toward every other girl

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  • - Not respecting me and my family
    - Being asexual/selfish
    - Abusive physically and emotionally
    - Being ignorant/stupid/racist
    - Any other sexuality that isn't straight and "cis"
    - Cheating
    - Ignoring me, not showing me that he loves me or cares about me
    - COMMUNICATION. Sucking at it is a deal breaker.

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  • If he is always putting his friends before me.

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  • Cheating
    Lying
    Violence
    Substance abuse

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  • Lying
    Cheating
    Doesn't want kids
    Poor hygiene
    Lack of ambition

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  • Cheating and violence

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  • Cheating

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  • too clingy- as in has nothing else to do in life/ just spends all day on social media
    smokes
    lies

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  • Divorced men with children. They have unrealistic expectations for women they date. Many don't want a proper wedding and honeymoon and many have bad attitudes. Plus all the drama and baggage they have.

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  • Cheating is the main one and illegal drugs

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  • When the guy is not willing to talk when something's wrong.

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